About This Blog

           This blog is going to express what a man is really thinking and what men really like/want. Most women read the cosmopolitan to find helpful tips about themselves and as well about men. Most women  in relationships think they know their man or if a single women is dating around thinks they got it figured out. I have always said the more knowledge you contain the more power you have. That being said even if a women thinks she knows her man very well..she is wrong.  The goal of this blog is to inform women what men really want and like. This blog will not make anyone a mind reader, but there will be some helpful tips to get a step ahead.

            The first tip to understanding a man is understanding yourself, once you are comfortable with yourself, you will be comfortable with another man. To list off of what women want from most to least in a man; is a best friend, soul mate, and having a sexual attractions to their man; hence no friend zone. Men are pretty close to this list, but first we want sexual attraction, soul mate, and best friend.  If a women can understand this code of what men want in that order, everything will go a lot smoother on getting to know your man. A mans primitive instincts is to first look at the hips of a women, hence sexual attraction. If any man ever says the first thing he saw on a women was her eyes...he is straight out lying. Science can prove that men see the shape of your body before they see your eyes. This is not a bad thing because this is how men have been coded to think from the beginning. Other than that men want a soul mate, someone who they can be one with and share everything to. Women forget men can be just like them in this category. The best feeling in the world is finding a soul mate and this is the biggest search on this planet. The last of the list is men want a best friend too. Men want to share their adventures with their women and show them what they are interested in. This is when the balance comes in to play, when men want to do one thing and the women want to do another. The best advice to give is to compromise and this will allow both women/men to understand the balance.





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